Tara, I think it's cool there are 2 drummers.
I assume your father is an extreme control freak in the object that he wants everything right-perfect, otherwise he won't do it.
And I'm sure most of the people on here know that Bryan Ferry is a perfectionist. Maybe they haven't thought about that?
If you wouldn't be good, you wouldn't be there.
There will always be people who criticise you no matter what you do, I think you're doing great.
I'm a younger fan (I'm 29), so I really love the fact there are many musicians on stage. Also Ollie is absolutely stunning, I had the pleasure of shortly meeting him in 2007 before the concert in the Elisabeth Hall in Antwerp. An very nice guy, very talented. At that time I was starting to play electric guitar too, I looked up at him...wow. (sadly can't play anymore , health stuff) But I still look at his solo's and playing with awe

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I hope RKG will really be hot someday. Been listening to the tracks and they sound really nice.
Would have loved to go to Bruges and witness a show, but in 2007 I got hearing damage after the Ferry concert at the Lokerse Feesten. But I've seen some stuff on youtube and heard some live tracks and they are really good. (now where's that live album?) Just read the good news about a live dvd. This might slightly make up for being unable to attend any concerts due to the damaged ears....
You're cool onstage, go a great drum set with the Kate pic. I saw you wearing a couple of shirts from the merchandise, very nice. It suits you. A bit a of pity there aren't enough ladies models...(HINT HINT

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You also seem very focussed. Maybe some people think that is an uninterested look. Never mind. You know what you' doing.
Keep doing what you do, you're doing great!
Michèle M.